نام کتاب : زندگى تحت توفيقات اصول اخلاق نویسنده : مكارم شيرازى، ناصر جلد : 1 صفحه : 47
live in seclusion, we have broken this mirror and our menta lappearance
will be like the discordant appearance of those who never look at the mirror!
4- Suspicion on God's servants: one of the otherdisa dvanta ges of seclusion
and dissociation is suspicion onpeople, and in fact this is one of the effects
of" vanity" whichinvolves such people, because after being affected
by" severeconceit" and extremist belief on oneself and not observing
anappropriate reaction from people( appreciation and gratitude asmuch as such
people expect ), this idea is gradually formed inthem that people are engaged
in mistake, ill- will, misunder standing, prejudice, and disregard to values in
theirjudgment and such people being ungrateful, partial, anddisregardful to
virtues are vicious, astray and deviated and donot deserve any association and
communication.
As such, seclusion itself is a factor for intensification ofseclusion and
support of this mentality and more isolation frompeople.
5- Peevishness and anger: Dissociable people are
peevish andangry, and they are very intolerant of disturbing encounters
withpeople. They may be disturbed by observing a little harshness orhearing a
sentence against their desire, and so called lose theirtemper, and show
offensive and rigorous reactions. Although, this is not a generality, but it is
observed in several cases.
In contrast, associable people are often gentle and goodtempered and become
angry less often.
The reason is obvious. Patience and tolerance is usuallyacquired through
exercise and facing with unpleasing events andthe spirit getting accustomed to
them, and since social life isnaturally accompanied with disturbing encounters,
mangradually becomes patient.
نام کتاب : زندگى تحت توفيقات اصول اخلاق نویسنده : مكارم شيرازى، ناصر جلد : 1 صفحه : 47