9 .Way of influencing on the hearts

* What we shall do for our advices to be influential on theheart of others?* Shall we be fact seeking or aggressive?* Factors effective in influencing on the hearts: 1. Seeking excellence in discussion or dispute and fussing 2. Stopping selfishness 3. Provoking positive affections 4. Belief in one's own speech 5. Effect of virtue of the speaker